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The
feeling of loving someone more than
yourself was such an amazing feeling
that I will treasure forever in my life.
I'm sure everyone has deeply fell in
love at least once in their life time.
At least I know I did. I once fell in
love with a boy that I meet when I was
in grade 9. He was not in any of my
classes, but he was good friends with
one of the boy's locker next to mine. He
was open, kind, loving, attentive and it
was so impossible to resist. Our story is
sweet and bitter at the same time. But I really
appreciate God for giving me the
opportunity and chance to meet him in my
life. It was like a gift from God. I think the chance of us started
dating was by mistake. I don't know if
he really remember, but I think I was
taken by surprised the first time he
held on to my hand at the library. I
never thought he would love a girl like
me. I never really thought of myself as
pretty, but
he's so patient and kind hearted to
accept me for who I am and not how I
look like and see the true color of me
from within. For that I really appreciated
him and I think he's an amazing person
because he has such a big heart. I promised
myself that no matter if our relationship
last or not. I will always have him
first place in my heart. Haven't said
that I also discovered that he's a very
loyal person to the person he
loves, his family and his friends. I remembered one
time he showed me a letter in his wallet
that was given to him by a little girl
when he was in elementary school and
till that day he still kept the letter in his
wallet and that was about five years
later or more since he last saw the
little girl. He never opened the
letter and see what the letter was
saying, but he told me that it's
something a girl gave him, so he will
treasure it in his life forever. I think till
this day he still have that letter in
his wallet I bet you.
During the time we were
together we were truly in love with each
other and had a long distance
relationship for many years after we
both graduated from high school. He
decided to go to Ottawa to attend
University. During that time it was very
hard, because I only get to see him when
he gets a break from school, so that was
three times a year. I always look
forward for him to come back to
Vancouver and visit. But our
love for each other was strong, the time we get to see
each other we enjoyed each and every
minute of each other's company. But all good things must come
to an end. When he graduated from
University it was the time we broke up,
because he have to move back to Taiwan
and work. I was devastated but
understand at the same time. Nerveless,
I was mad or hate him for making such a
decision. I just accepted that we did had
a wonderful relationship and falling in
love with each other was the best thing
that happened to both of us. For
almost 9 years I haven't seen or talked
to him, but just recently we started
talking to each other again. I noticed
how we both are so mature and grew up to
be really wonderful people.
Finally I understand why our
relationship did not work out. God is
giving us both a chance to learn more
about ourselves and achieve our goals during this time. I must say,
that I'm very happy with my life now and
I'm a very successful professional
wedding floral designer and
holds a very high position in a very
large company
in Vancouver BC. All in all I'm not sad
or bitter that our
relationship didn't work out, instead I will
always cherish the time we spent
together. I'm sure he feels the same way
too.
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